Divorce is a difficult and emotionally draining experience, and it can be hard to know what to say when someone you care about is going through the process. It’s important to show your support and let them know that you’re there for them during this time.
One way of expressing your sympathy is by sending a thoughtful card with an appropriate message. Here are some tips on what to write in a divorce card so that you can provide comfort and encouragement during this tough period in someone's life.
Divorce cards : What to write and not write!
You could start off by expressing your sympathy and offering your support. Let them know that you understand what they’re going through, and emphasise that you are there to offer help in any way possible.
Let the person know that this is a difficult time but also remind them of their resilience and strength. Encourage them to focus on what they can control, such as making plans for their future.
It’s also important to recognise their feelings, so let them know it’s okay to feel what they’re feeling during this time. They may be feeling heart aches and suffering but it will pass.
Concentrate on the positive things
Remind the person of all the positive things in their life. This might include good friends, family member, opportunities, etc. Helping them stay focused on the positive will help them work through the difficult times.
- Things may seem uncertain now, but you will get through it all with grace and courage.
- This is a difficult time, but I know you will make it through with strength and courage
- This might be a hard time for you, but stay focused on what lies ahead of you – brighter days await!
- Hang on to your positive thoughts and stay strong, you will find happiness
No matter what words are used when writing in a divorce card, what matters most is that you are sending love. Showing kindness and understanding can go a long way in helping your loved one through this rough time.
Let them know that you care for them and that you’re there for them. Writing a thoughtful message when things ended, will let them know that they are not alone and give them the strength to face what lies ahead with courage.
Divorce Sympathy Messages
Writing a divorce sympathy message can be difficult. The sentiment needs to express the complexity of emotions surrounding the situation – sympathy for their grief, understanding for their tough decision, and perhaps even hope for their future. Was it an unhappy marriage? The really unhappy ones deserve an encouragement card with something like:
- My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Sending love and lots of strength your way.
- I am so sorry that you are going through this. If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.
- Sending love and lots of hugs your way during this difficult time.
- May peace, comfort, and healing be yours in the days ahead
- I’m so sorry for what you’re going through
- I know it’s not easy, but I hope that you can find strength and peace while navigating this journey. You have my support now and always
- You may be feeling hurt and lost right now, but don’t forget that there is still hope in the world. Take time to heal and remember that we love you no matter what
It’s important to provide validation and supportive messages in a very sensitive moment. Start by keeping your message short but meaningful, thanking them for allowing you to be part of their journey and expressing sorrow at what they are going through.
- I hope you find courage and resilience during this time. I am always here for you, even if it’s just to talk or listen. You are not alone
- My heart breaks for what you are going through – please know that I am here for you in any way that I can be of help. You have my deepest sympathy
- I want to express my sorrow for what is happening in your life right now and assure you of my continuing love, compassion and friendship during this difficult time
- The pain of divorce is real and hard to go through, but remember that there will be brighter days ahead. You have my love and support always
- I am so sorry for what you’re going through. I hope that you can find strength and peace during this difficult time. I’m here for you if you need anything at all
- My sincerest sympathy on what is happening in your life right now – please remember to take care of yourself during this tough period, one day at a time. We love you!
- I'm sorry that you're having to go through this, but I want you to know that I'm here for you and will do whatever I can do help get through it
- My heart goes out to you during this trying time – sending love and light your way
- I may not have the perfect words but I'm here for you and am sending my thoughts and prayers your way
- It's ok to feel what you're feeling right now – don't be afraid to lean on your loved ones for support
You could also use supportive phrases like “I understand how hard this must be” or “you have my support during this time” and then close your message expressing care with an offer to listen without judgement if they ever want to talk.
Encouraging Words
Encouraging words can also be helpful when someone is going through a divorce. Try to focus on what can be done, what is within their power, and what lies ahead.
These types of messages will remind them that they are strong and capable of getting through the difficult times but it is the beginning of something more wonderful.
- You may have lost what you had but what you still have is your strength and courage
- Even thought this is an extremely tough time, remember that something beautiful can come out of the most painful times
- Focus on what you can control - it’s a great starting point for a new journey
- You have been so courageous throughout this journey, may your strength carry on as you move forward
- You are strong and brave, and whatever comes your way, you will get through it
- You have the strength to face this challenge and come out stronger than ever
Offer Support
A supportive message can go a long way in helping someone feel better during this difficult time. Offering your assistance during this time can also help ease the burden of what someone is going through.
Try to find words of comfort, encouragement, and understanding that come from the heart. Your friend or relative will appreciate your kind words as they face the challenges associated with separation and divorce.
- I'm sorry to hear what you're going through and want you to know that I'm here for you
- Know that you are not alone in this journey and I’m here for you whenever you need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on
- You are not alone - I’m with you every step of the way!
- Sending love your way - I am here if you ever need a listening ear or someone to just be there for you. Wishing you comfort in the days ahead
- Relationships and marriages end. It's such a tragedy but we're here for you and your children
It's important to let them know what they can rely on you for. From practical tasks like taking care of errands or helping out with moving, to providing emotional support.
Funny things to write in a divorce card
Humour can be a great way to lighten the mood during what can otherwise be very rough times. It can also help take some of the pressure off what they’re going through when they've broke up with their spouse.
- Don't worry, we didn't like him anyway
- Congratulations, you can now live happily ever after
- It's much better to be off the shelf than in the wrong cupboard
- If you're happy and you know it, you're divorced!
- Well, that was a lucky escape!
- The silver lining is that you're now single!
Just make sure to avoid poking fun at what they’re dealing with, and keep it light-hearted if you choose to go down this route.
More words of encouragement for divorced men and women
Divorce is a challenging time, and it's important to show your support during this difficult period. Let them know that you are there for them in any way they need and that they are not alone.
Here are some words of encouragement to help them cope with the divorce process:
- You have what it takes to make it through this
- I am here for you if you need anything at all
- Focus on what you can control and let go of what you cannot
- It’s okay to take time for yourself and focus on what makes you happy
- Remember that this too shall pass, and that brighter days are ahead in the near future
- You are strong enough to get through this challenging time, and I am here to help in any way I can
What not to say to someone getting a divorce
Divorce is an emotionally draining experience, and what someone needs most during this time is understanding, compassion and support. A card with the right words when their relationship has ended can be one way of showing your love and care for them.
Things to avoid:
- He was a control freak, you're better off without him!
- She never loved you anyway!
- I told you marriages never work
- At least he'll be happier with his secretary
- It's a good thing you split up with your partner as they were cheating on you!
Showing your support and understanding during this difficult time will mean a lot to them and help provide comfort as they navigate their new life as a single person.
Signing off in your card
Finally, end the card with some additional words of encouragement and a reminder that you care about them and are there for them no matter what. This can be an incredibly powerful message.
You could use something like:
- I am here for you
- You have my complete support
- Wishing you hope for a brighter future ahead of you.
- I'm just a call away
- With my deepest sympathy
- You will come out stronger
- Best wishes
- Sending good wishes
- Stay positive
Such supportive words can bring a lot of comfort and go a long way in helping someone cope with what they are going through.
Conclusion
No matter what message you decide to write in your divorce card, remember that it should come from the heart and communicate that you care about them and want what's best for them.
These messages may help express what you want to say in a divorce card as well as provide comfort and compassion during such a difficult experience. It's important to show friends or family members going through divorce that they are not alone
